Comments on: Stalker Girl Updates http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/11/18/1289/ hmmm... what? Mon, 30 Aug 2010 22:37:38 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Val http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/11/18/1289/comment-page-1/#comment-13090 Val Sat, 31 Dec 2005 16:59:10 +0000 http://spoken-for.org/?p=1289#comment-13090 Thank you Lisa, for your comments, however, what Christine says is true. I tried everything from telling her off to completely ignoring her for months. In fact, the ignoring her does more damage than telling her off and posting about her. That's what causes her to create <i>new</i> profiles to harrass me. And, yes, the police are involved. Last week, my cousin the cop actually suggested I "give her a taste of her own medicine." One of these days one of two things will happen: 1. she'll grow up and quit all this immature behavior, 2. she'll get into trouble and have to stop. Until then, I manage the best way I know how, doing what is right at the time depending on the exact situations. Thank you Lisa, for your comments, however, what Christine says is true. I tried everything from telling her off to completely ignoring her for months. In fact, the ignoring her does more damage than telling her off and posting about her. That’s what causes her to create new profiles to harrass me. And, yes, the police are involved. Last week, my cousin the cop actually suggested I “give her a taste of her own medicine.”

One of these days one of two things will happen: 1. she’ll grow up and quit all this immature behavior, 2. she’ll get into trouble and have to stop.

Until then, I manage the best way I know how, doing what is right at the time depending on the exact situations.

]]> By: Christine http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/11/18/1289/comment-page-1/#comment-13062 Christine Fri, 30 Dec 2005 15:36:16 +0000 http://spoken-for.org/?p=1289#comment-13062 Before you open your mouth about something KNOW THE FACTS. You don't know the whole situation. She DID try completely ignoring this girl and that just made it worse. The police are even involved. This is her blog. This is what people talk about on their blogs, what is going on in their lives. So her talking about this does NOT make her obsessed. I would love to see what you would do if this was happening to you. Before you open your mouth about something KNOW THE FACTS. You don’t know the whole situation. She DID try completely ignoring this girl and that just made it worse. The police are even involved. This is her blog. This is what people talk about on their blogs, what is going on in their lives. So her talking about this does NOT make her obsessed. I would love to see what you would do if this was happening to you.

]]> By: Lisa http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/11/18/1289/comment-page-1/#comment-13061 Lisa Fri, 30 Dec 2005 10:51:47 +0000 http://spoken-for.org/?p=1289#comment-13061 What Vix said. Everytime you make a post, you validate her. Everytime you mention her, even in passing, you validate her. Just like children having tantrums, the only way to make it stop is to ignore it completely. Seriously - you have to stop because it's looking to me like you're getting a little obsessed with the situation. You say you don't delete posts, but you really must. I'm really sorry to say this and I know you won't like it, but you need to do this if you want to avoid looking like you're enjoying the attention. What Vix said. Everytime you make a post, you validate her. Everytime you mention her, even in passing, you validate her. Just like children having tantrums, the only way to make it stop is to ignore it completely. Seriously – you have to stop because it’s looking to me like you’re getting a little obsessed with the situation. You say you don’t delete posts, but you really must. I’m really sorry to say this and I know you won’t like it, but you need to do this if you want to avoid looking like you’re enjoying the attention.

]]> By: Val http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/11/18/1289/comment-page-1/#comment-11329 Val Tue, 22 Nov 2005 15:16:46 +0000 http://spoken-for.org/?p=1289#comment-11329 Hmmmm, apparently her signature in that last email, the one with the caps (为什么ä½Â 不会自杀ä½Â 母狗!) means "why don't you kill yourself you bitch." Thanks, <a href="http://delirium.spoken-for.org/" rel="nofollow">Tammy</a> and <a href="http://mel.uberkids.com/blog" rel="nofollow">Mel</a> for the translations. Now, isn't that just special? Hmmmm, apparently her signature in that last email, the one with the caps (为什么ä½Â 不会自杀ä½Â 母狗!) means “why don’t you kill yourself you bitch.” Thanks, Tammy and Mel for the translations. Now, isn’t that just special?

]]> By: lime http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/11/18/1289/comment-page-1/#comment-11162 lime Sat, 19 Nov 2005 22:36:58 +0000 http://spoken-for.org/?p=1289#comment-11162 Oh, my! I'm speechless as well...almost. This girl (if it's what she is..) is totally craze. Oh, my! I’m speechless as well…almost. This girl (if it’s what she is..) is totally craze.

]]> By: Vix http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/11/18/1289/comment-page-1/#comment-11142 Vix Sat, 19 Nov 2005 13:04:13 +0000 http://spoken-for.org/?p=1289#comment-11142 Ignore her. Completely and utterly. All comments, emails, profiles etc. - to you or anyone else - should be deleted immediately and without retaliation. She's thriving on your reaction. Don't fuel her fire and eventually she'll HAVE to stop for it's not getting her anyway . . . V xx Ignore her. Completely and utterly. All comments, emails, profiles etc. – to you or anyone else – should be deleted immediately and without retaliation.

She’s thriving on your reaction. Don’t fuel her fire and eventually she’ll HAVE to stop for it’s not getting her anyway . . .

V xx

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