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A little grr @ SVU.

 

Okay, I love the Law & Order shows. But I just want to gripe about a little something here.

In tonight’s episode of SVU, a family stands up at a funeral of one of the brothers. The family has 10 kids, besides the dead one. Anyway, Olivia says something to the effect of, “who has that many kids today?” And Elliot replies, “not even Catholics.”

I just want to say that having a lot of kids is not strange. And who is to say what is a lot, really? I know many families with six or more kids, my husband is the oldest of six. I know one family with 7 kids, two families with 9 kids, and one with 10 kids. Only one set of twins between the three families. And you know what? They are all some of the most wonderful people I know.

It’s funny (and by “funny,” I mean “not so much”) how people can whine and cry about their civil rights yet most of the world looks down on American families with more than three kids, can we say hypocrites? Having more than the typical 2.2 kids in American families is by no means weird. It does not mean you don’t know what birth control is. It does not mean you’re crazy, or any of the other things I’ve heard people say over the years. And it certainly does not mean you subscribe to the theories about large families put forth in the show.

There is nothing wrong with having 1 kid or 20. It’s personal preference and people should mind their own business regarding other people’s family plans/ideas.

Grrr.

 

6 Responses to “A little grr @ SVU.”

  1.  

    I LOVE Law and Order.

    But I also totally agree with you. There is nothing wrong with a big family! My mom’s one of six and my dad’s one of three. I have 18 first cousins and most of them have kids. My family is huge and I absolutely love it. I plan on having lots of kids myself. It’s just more fun!

  2.  

    Amen, Val. I’m 4 of 8, grandma is 1 of 13…I love big families. The only thing is that some people, who shall remain unknown…want to have all those kids for attention. I love my daughter, and am sorry for the one, but I look forward to a houseful because they make me happy and loved.

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    I agree. Another thought: I just don’t know who can afford it moneywise with the price of everything these days…it must be really hard in that department but wonderful blessings otherwise!

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    I’m pretty much in the too each their own category. One thing though, that ends the first time one of those families comes around for the third time asking for help so they can feed their family, and yet they keep having more kids. If they want it to be their own business, it should be that way all around.

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    Yeah, I’d say hard in the financial area - but the big families I know are all just fine. It’s amazing how they’re able to make ends meet. None of them I know are on welfare and one family I have in mind actually is pretty well off, one with 10 kids.

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    I’ve always dreamed of a big family since both I and my parents have one sibling each. But so far I only have one - a wonderful one, I might add ;) I do hope to give him some siblings, but I guess I’ll never get as many as five like I planned as a 16 year old!

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