We had marriage issues b4 but always worked them out. I had enough of his lies on November 11 and told him to leave. He did. No fuss to it either. Walked away from our marriage, our 3 kids, our house. All for her. He actually moved in with her when I kicked him out. Have no idea how long its been goin on. And she pretty much told me she didn’t care back in January if I wanted him back.