My husband and I have been married 16 years, together for 18. We have a 17 year old daughter and 14 year old son. My husband returned from a work related business trip acting distant, and strange. After a day and a half of things seeming amiss, I asked him what was wrong? He replied that he was”done with me!” I was shocked, because the whole time he was gone he was texting me about how much he missed and loved the kids and I! Upon further questioning he said “I will not discuss her with you!” Well to say the least I was crushed and heart broken. 2 days later he sat the kids down while I was at the grocery store and told them that he had found someone whom he was”madly” in love with and intends to marry ASAP. I am still not sure how long this has been going on. || As weeks have passed I have discovered who she is (a former coworker of my husband). She is also currently married and has 3 children! It bears mentioning that I am my husband’s fourth wife. He is 50, I’m 38 and the home wrecker is 44. My husband has stopped paying all household bills, including mortgage, he also refuses to leave the home we have owned together for 15 years. I am embarking in this sometimes scary journey of divorce. I regrettably belong to this club of cheated on spouses, not by choice. However I am in great company, I appreciate all prayers or words of encouragement I can get.