This Sweetest Day, October 21st, will mark our 25th Anniversary. We have been together since the 8th grade. We have married for 17 years and have two children together, a 22 year old son and 16 year old daughter. My husband is a police officer and (was) the love of my life. Two months ago, he decided to drop a bombshell on me and let me know that he decided he is no longer “in love” with me. HE wanted to go to couples counseling, of course I agreed. It has come to my recent attention however, that he has been sleeping with a young 24-year-old soon to be police officer from his department. She hasn’t even been alive as long as we have been together… and she is only a few years older than my son. (Disgusting) She knows he is married, as everyone is his department does. She is young and dumb and has assisted him in ruining our marriage and our lives. (I hope she still has a job after this) LOL! I am finally free of the most selfish, devious, manipulative, man I have ever met and his new “hot?” girlfriend! I wish you both years of happiness!!!