If you know the man that you are now residing with is married, and has been for the last 17 years, you must really have low self esteem to stay there with him knowing that he’s still in love with his wife and clearly doesn’t love you enough to get a divorce and make you an honest woman because you’re not worthy. You have no home training and I blame your mom for you being a poor excuse for a woman. You should be ashamed of yourself for Making it a struggle for real women such as myself that have boundaries And integrity. Were you raised by wolves?