I met my ex-husband when we were just 16 years old. We were married when we were 18, had our son when we were 20 and our daughter when we were 23. Our marriage was tested many times due to him enlisting in the Air Force and me being alone with the kids many times for months. I followed his career, lived away from my family and friends and was faithful for our nearly 30 year marriage. In 2012 we started having problems, I knew he must be going thru a mid-life crisis or something. We had financial problems and started arguing more than we ever had. I was babysitting our two granddaughters, who were 2 and 9 months. He criticized everything I did, and I suggested we go to counseling. || In September 2012 we went to Gatlinburg to celebrate our 29th wedding anniversary and I noticed he was on his phone quite a bit. I never suspected he may be having our affair because he was my best friend, my lover and my husband. We had a close family who went on vacations together, had family dinners and spent time together. We loved our granddaughters and he had ethics I had never seen in a man. In November, 2012 I was paying our cell bill and noticed the same number many times and a different number on the text messages many times. I called him at work when I found out it belonged to his co-worker who I did not trust from the moment I met her. He claimed she was just a co-worker and he was helping her out with another co-worker who was harassing her. The other number belonged to her daughter whose phone she was using, I guess so her husband wouldn’t know. || Two days later my daughter told me he had confessed to my son-n-law he and she had been having an affair since July. I was devastated, he moved out and told me he was in love with her and we divorced, 7 months later, throwing away 31 years together……