I have been married for over 12 years. Whitney is my husband’s cousin through marriage. The relationship that made them cousins ended a very long time ago and they had not seen each other in 20 years. He told me she called him lying about being raped, wanting money and sex. But he said he had no idea how she got his phone number. It made no sense and bothered me a lot so I made the decision to ask her about it. I contacted her via Facebook and she told me he went to see her out of nowhere. He put the blame on her and she put it on him and neither of them was willing to sit down to talk about it. I still don’t know exactly how far it went but talking romantically with someone you were related to is disgusting regardless of how far it went IMO.